Hello again! I should have told you, dear fellow bloggers that I was going to take a few days off from blogging, but initially I had only intended to take a couple of days off blogging to feel revitalised, but those two days eventually turned into three weeks as unforeseen circumstances arose in my home and on the farm which needed my attention and caused me considerable concern,and just when I thought things couldn't get any worse two of my dearest and closest friends passed away within a week of each other, which was deeply upsetting as we had known each other for 65 years. I had started to make a post in February, but after languishing for some time, I knew it would be beneficial to get back to blogging, try to finish my post, and visit my blog friends,... grieving will take time, so here are some photos that were taken in February on mostly dark days, and a few in March in better weather conditions.
This Brown Squirrel with the black bushy tail has a voracious appetite, and eats all the sunflower seeds and peanuts leaving none for the birds.
When I think it has had more than it's fair share I go outside onto the balcony and the squirrel quickly disappears, only to reappear as soon as I go inside and close the door. I have now given up trying to shoo it away.When it eventually leaves of it's own accord I refill all the feeders and the birds are free to eat their breakfast in peace until another squirrel appears, a younger reddish brown one with a thinner tail. I can't seem to find a photos of this one, but will share in another post when I have found them.
The slopes are covered with Gorse at this time of the year..Gorse grows in any climate.and is quite common in the wild vegetation in Portugal.It has many health benefits, used as a medicinal herbal tea it regulates blood pressure and diabetes, and is also good for the liver and kidneys.The yellow flowers are also used in cosmetics, and of course insects are attracted to the coconut scented perfume.
I have been enjoying fresh orange juice every day from the oranges in the orchard. The sweet orange was unknown in Europe until the fifteenth century when Italian and Portuguese merchants brought orange trees to the Mediterranean- It was considered a luxury, grown by wealthy people in private conservatories known as orangeries. By 1646 the sweet orange was well known throughout Europe.
Subsequent expeditions in the mid 1500s brought sweet oranges to South America, Mexico, and Florida in 1565.
I have seen a prodigious amount of Great Tits this year. They have started to carry away peanuts in their shells from the balcony, and return time and again for more.
The Robin is always the first to arrive on my balcony.
A female Chaffinch comes to eat the cake.
As you can see the Robin has an orange breast but the bird is known as Robin Redbreast, because the word orange was only used as a colour in the 1500s after the robin had already been named.
I think this is a baby Chaffinch.
My Blue Daisy flowered plant, "Felicia amelloides" is doing so well, and is full of new buds It started out as a small cutting but is now like a small bush. I love it's blue daisy like flowers, blue is my favourite colour in the garden, and I had to see it on the balcony.
The male Blackcap
It sometimes visits my feeders to eat cake.
A Lily plant in bud on my balcony. It won't take long before the peach coloured flower appears.
A close look at this intelligent Eurasian Jay shows it's beautiful eyes. The Eurasian Jay has exceptionally keen eyesight, and if it detects the slightest movement from me it flies away.
The wind was ferocious in February. This is a shot of the female Great Spotted Woodpecker Wilma for short, who flew to the tree but clung to the side of the tree without moving for a good ten mins until the wind abated. It's clear to all who see this shot why the Woodpecker is named the Great Spotted Woodpecker Having never seen the wing extended before it was a pleasant surprise.
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The Coal Tit showing the top of it's head which you don't often see.
Juvenile female Chaffinch
The Blackbird has started to come to my balcony again to eat the cake crumbs I throw on the tiles, as several birds such as the Robin and Chaffinch prefer to eat from the ground. I sweep the floor every day and mop it once a week.I don't mind at all, it's just one of those necessary chores.
Another shot of the Blue Daisy and some wild ones on the farm.
Dear fellow bloggers it may take me a while before I can visit all of you, as I am taking antibiotics which together with my own medication makes me feel drowsy and slow, I already felt slow :=) but I will eventually visit one and all with the greatest of pleasure.
35 comments:
Hello Sonjia,
I am sorry about the loss of your friends, it is sad to lose two of your friends so close together. The squirrel is a cutie, they always find the food. I have seen the Gorse in Ireland, it is pretty. Your oranges look delicious. You do see a nice variety of birds in your garden. I love them all, especially the cute Robin. Beautiful flowers. Happy Sunday, enjoy your day and have a great new week!
Oh dear, Sonjia, you really have been having a rough time. I'm so sorry to hear that you have lost your dear friends, and that you are struggling with your health too. I hope that things improve for you soon. Your wonderful flowers and the delightful birds must help you keep your spirits afloat at such a time, and those squirrels might be a bit of a nuisance, but I bet they give you some amusement too.
PLease take good care and get well soon.
With my very best wishes - - - Richard
Dear Sonija,
It is so nice to hear from you, but it was very sad to hear about your two friends who have died within a short space of time. Yes, grief is hard to get through, but only time helps. Your pictures are so nice and I love looking at the squirrel. The plant you call lily is name is Clivia marginata. It looks like a lily yes! I have a plant like that too, but I can't get it to bloom. You must show pictures of it when the flower bursts out.
I wish you a speedy recovery dear friend.
We wish you all the best.
Warm hugs!
So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear friends. It must have been a difficult time.
So many beautiful photos! Robins here are redder in colour and they’ve recently returned from their vacation south. Spring is settling in beautifully there and here too.
Hello, Dear Sonjia: Please accept my deepest condolences on the death of two friends of very long standing. Death is never easy but as we get older it is a reality that it becomes more of a factor in our lives, and we have to cope with it, however hard it may be at times. The simply truth is that people live and people die, difficult though it may be for those left behind. I know that you are a strong person and you will come through this, as indeed you must, but please know that we are all with you in spirit, and will try in our own humble and entirely inadequate ways to fill the void. It's times like this that make me wish we lived closer to each other, but there is nothing to be done about that, and written communication is the best I can do. You have still - and always - nature at your doorstep. Squirrels and woodpeckers, tits and jays, robins and blackcaps are all in their own way symbols of continuity and a reminder of all that is good in life. Your friends would only applaud your resoluteness and your embrace of these fellow beings with whom we share our time on Earth. With all the love that you can imagine - David
Sorry to hear that your dear friend has passed. Those shots of birds are really beautiful. The European robin, we call Rotkehlchen here, is my favourite.
The black cap is looking really good. I have not seen it before
I was sorry to read about the loss of your friends, my condolences.
I did enjoy seeing your wonderful variety of birds and that cheeky squirrel.
We have grey ones that visit the garden, and I know not everyone likes them, but they make me smile as I watch their escapades.
The flowers you share here are also nice to see, and it must be wonderful to enjoy fresh orange juice from the ones grown in the orchard.
Sending my good wishes to you.
All the best Jan
My dear Sonjia, I am so sorry to learn of your friends passing. Lovely post in which to remember them by. I think David's words say everything that I feel. My best wishes to you.
Mike.
Hello Sonjia,
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your friends, it's sad to lose two of your friends so close together.
I also recently lost a friend, she was only ill for one week, we were friends for 64 years.
Your photos are beautiful again, especially the squirrels, I love them.
I wish you a beautiful week.
Greetings Irma
sorry about the antibiotics, I do despise taking them but do when I have to.. prayers they work quickly. silly pesky squirrels and beautiful birds, gorgeous flowers out your window to keep you happy while you recuperate.
First of all, Sonjia, I am deeply saddened to hear of the deaths of your two very good friends. It is hard to lose anyone we like or enjoy but when the relationship is especially dear, it is a different grieving journey and I'm so sorry you have to experience it. I send many wishes for your peace and healing. It takes time but I know you will honor that.
And, I'm sad, too, that you are still feeling unwell and on the medication. I hope that clears soon. It certainly doesn't help, adding that to your plate.
I hope you are finding the solace in your beautiful environment and the fabulous birds and flowers. They are lovely and I know they all make US feel a bit better about the challenging things in our day. I hope they are doing that for you. Take care of yourself.
Beautiful birds. And the flowers crown everything. Fantastic.
I am so sorry for your losses.
You take care of yourself. DO what you need to do or don't do.
Hi Sonjia,
Great to have you back. I am sorry to hear about your friends. It can be very upsetting losing friends that you have known for so long.
What an interesting post. Your squirrel is a lovely colour and looks very healthy. We have both native red squirrels here as well as the American grey squirrel.
Your plants are all very much more advanced than ours. I have never realised that oranges were not native to the Mediterranean. So interesting to learn and I must do some research! I remember having wonderful orange juice from an abandoned orchard next to a villa we rented in Portugal about 15 years ago!
Your birds are all species we have here. The great tits seem to be very numerous here this year, too.
With best wishes.
Nick
I am very sorry that you have to accept the loss of two dear people. Be warmly embraced by me.
Your photos are beautiful, of course I like the squirrel... how nice that the gingster is already blooming in your area. And I was interested in your story about the oranges. There were many orangeries in the royal houses in the 17th century and they are still called that "orangery" today, but we are not aware of what treasures they were back then.
I love drinking freshly squeezed orange juice... and I squeeze it myself.
I wish you a nice Easter week.
I like your blog, With your permission I'll follow you.
Greeting
Dear Sonjia, I am so sorry to know about your friends. We too have reached the age where the loss of dear friends is no longer uncommon. But it never gets easier. I also know just what you mean by slowing down "anyway" and especially when you are on meds.
Nature does heal and I am not surprised that you know that -- your beautiful birds made me feel better today (on a day when nothing has gone wrong, but where I do feel slow and a bit out of sorts for no reason)...Thank you for sharing all. I hope you feel at your best soon.
I am so very sorry to learn of the passing of your friends. It's hard to have to say goodbye to those we love after knowing them for many years and I send you a big hug. I hope all the other stresses you mentioned have eased. Getting back to blogging and photography is heartbalm and I hope it has helped by taking and sharing all these exquisite photos. Thank you my friend and I wish you a much happier and healthy year ahead.
Querida amiga siento tristeza por la muerte de tus amigos, espero y deseo que te estés recuperando bien con tus flores y esos pájaros que fotografías tan bien. Tus fotografías están preciosas y me encantan. Te dejo abrazos muy fuertes.
Thank you Sonjia...I wish we had brown squirrels..It would be a nice change..Your flowers are beautiful..great pictures..Our Robins are a bit different than yours..Hop you are feeling better soon..
PS Happy Easter..Missy
Dear Sonjia - I'm sadden and so sorry for your loss of two friends. It is always enjoyable to see what you have photographed from your balcony, but my laptop comments are always blocked. If this is blocked also, I will move to the computer whose chair hates me to leave another comment. I do not wish you to think I have abandoned your blog. Yvonne
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friends.
Your photos of the birds and flowers are beautiful.
Take all the time you need to rest and heal, Sonjia. We're here for you.
Hugs and blessings
Oh dear, you have lost your two friends, and your own health, be strong Sonjia.
Those are lovely Red Squirrel throw in, beautiful.
Hello Sonjia, Happy Easter to you and your family.
I enjoyed your post and all the garden photos.
The Robin is a favorite along with the cute Blackcap.
Your flowers are looking beautiful.
Thank you for linking up and sharing your post. Take care, have a great weekend.
Dear Sonjia,
The journey you've shared, marked by personal loss and the demanding rhythms of life, speaks volumes of your strength and dedication. Your vivid description of the natural world, from the mischievous squirrels to the robust blooms and spirited birds, paints a picture of a world that continues to thrive and inspire, regardless of the challenges we face. The gorse's resilience and the sweet orange's journey to Europe are beautiful metaphors for endurance and adaptability.
It's particularly touching how you've turned to nature and the blogosphere for solace and expression. Sharing these snapshots of life, both the bright and the shadowed, creates a bridge of understanding and community among us, your readers.
As you navigate through grief and healing, know that your blog serves not just as a testament to your personal journey, but also as a sanctuary for those who find solace in your words and pictures. Take all the time you need; we'll be here, ready to welcome you back with open arms and eager eyes, whenever you're ready to share again.
In the meantime, may the beauty of your garden, the cheekiness of your visiting squirrels, and the vibrant life that surrounds you offer comfort and moments of joy. Your resilience is inspiring, and your return to blogging is a gift to us all.
John
...I hope that you will be on the mend soon. I enjoy your feathered friends, but the flowers are what caught my eye. I had never seen Gorse until I saw it on a blog. Is your lily plant Clivia miniata? I have an orange one that is done flowering. Take care and be well.
I’m sorry how about your friends. Your pictures are excellent.
oooh sonjia...i am so happy to see you today. i hope you are taking the time you need to grieve and recover yourself. while grief is a universal experience, it is a deeply felt emotion & unique to each of us. be sure to take the time you need, those were difficult loses!! your images today are wonderful, i am sure the visits from these heavenly creatures will help to lift your spirits!! beautiful flowers, the blues look purple to me!! take care of yourself and rest when you need to!!
Dear Sonjia,
Just returned from a weekend away with my younger daughter and her family in Selsey to learn about the funeral arrangements for the wife of one of my oldest friends.Like you this is a distressing time for me, on top of which I have had some disquieting news about my own health so your blog with such wonderful explanations to add to the photos provided me with some respite again.
Please keep on snapping Sonjia. You have a great gift.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss of dear friends. It does leave such a hole in our lives when people leave us. I hope you can think of your good memories of them and keep those at the front of your mind.
As usual I love your pics of the creatures who visit your balcony. It is like a gift to see them. Hugs.
I didn't visit everyone last week and missed this post. I am very sorry for your losses and always look forward to your critter posts every week. Take care and God bless you!
so sorry to read about the difficult time you are going through with health and bereavement. Wishing you a speedy recovery, all the pictures are lovely, I especially love to see the woodpecker. Betty
Querida amiga me entristece leer que perdiste dos buenos amigos, lo siento mucho y espero te repongas pronto. Mucho ánimo y todo mi cariño. Un enorme abrazo.
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